The Last Words-Being conscious of TIME!
Following excerpts are the last words with my students (classes VII & IX) of Chapcha Middle Secondary School, Chukha, during the Farewell session, in August 2012. I taught them (mathematics) for 45 days as a practicing teacher (TP).
The time is a precious resource,
which you cannot save for future! Does it sound familiar? I hope it does.
Because I have been saying this, countless times and if it was something
perishable, it would have been long perished and found its destiny in a garbage
pit. But it isn’t something of that sort to say the least. It is a timeless
thing. As a GNH graduate, you should be mindful of the time and its
significance. And use them judiciously. Don’t waste time for something that
would lead you to nowhere, be it short term or long term. There is absolutely
no harm in aiming so high, unless of course those aims come into your life as deterrents.
But your high aims should sufficiently be backed with consistent efforts from
your part. In fact, it is only when you aim so high that you eventually be able
to land somewhere in the middle. However, it is very important for you to have
a self-comforting strategy worked out in advance. Meaning, that you should not
be so rigid or hard on yourself that would ultimately make your life miserable
if your aims aren’t fulfilled as you aspired. And that you should somehow know your limitations and
talents and whatever the circumstances, know how to consol yourself. Well
again, of course, know how to celebrate your success if it turns out good.
Knowing how to acknowledge your effort, time and whatever factors that would
have facilitated you to get to that level is very important. I say it important
not because you have then succeeded, but it is, in fact, even more important if
you have failed. Failing isn’t unnatural to anybody else for we have
experienced one time or other. But what isn’t natural is that we don’t take the
failure as a stepping-stone, in the sense we don’t access the factors that
could have possibly led to the failures. If we did that, we would become a better
person following the failure. So key point here, don’t abandon the failure but
acknowledge it and learn from the mistakes!
Don’t blame your life when
in reality you are the one who is entirely responsible for building that life
itself-you are the architect of your own life. Life isn’t what you get of it,
but what you make of it. Someone had matter-of-factly said, “Is life worth
living? That depends on liver.” Although the condition of liver would
ultimately determine if your life is worth living or not, as long as other
conditions are well in place, make your life worth living. Because, do you
realize getting the life itself is priceless needless to mention being worthy?
Even more so, we are the set of most fortunate ones to have borne in the
peace-loving country like ours. We can’t ask for more when you are already
being accorded with free education, shelters, health care and many more. Our
Kingdom’s constitution guarantees it. Don’t you think we are fortunate? I am
sure you agree with me. In our country, we don’t have to die simply because we
can’t bear the medical expenses or afford to pay health insurance. Despite the
fact that our country is underdeveloped with weak economy, the government
ensures that we the citizens have a free access to all the medical cares.
Now look back and see if
you should feel proud of being born in the Kingdom of Bhutan? Don’t ever forget
that our parents have suffered enough in raising us and now educating us. So if
we can’t feel the need to thank them or pay our gratitude, then our very
morality of being human is questionable, besides we are doing huge injustice to
our own life! Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, I sincerely request you
to use the time judiciously, don’t waste time on something which would actually
put you into trouble but study well and be somebody that your parents and you
would feel proud of. Lets make our country and our parents proud. Ultimately,
it is your pride!
Thank you, everybody.
This is born teacher and bro. your words can inspire every student. Keep it up.Best wishes.
ReplyDeleteHaha, don't know about it, i mean the so called born teacher! But anyway, thanks for your kind words bro. Hope you are doing well. See you soon.
ReplyDeleteNice article Pema....I enjoyed reading it.
ReplyDeleteThanks Lhaksam for reading and commenting. Hope you are doing well.
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